It's the small things

One whole week has passed by of his three week absence. I've worked more hours in the last eight days than I've had to do in years. I'm too tired to feel horny and I doubt I could lift a flogger if my life depended on it tonight.

Despite this my sub is sulking because we've not played recently. His main fetish is being put into bondage or sleepsacks and left to stew, or teased and left sexually frustrated.
For some reason he can't seem to see past his own needs, no matter how I explain it to him.

It's different for my sub side, it's irrlevant how tired I am, if he wants to play, we do. For me to Top someone or indulge in a session with my sub, it has to be when I want to, not when they do.
I never play with a sub when not in the right frame of mind or really tired, and most definitely not when angry.

We've a week away together next month, I'm hoping this will help re-establish the bond we have. I've told my subby he's spending the week tied to a tree, wearing nothing but a hood and a strait jacket, then then midges can have their way.
Of course I'd never really do such a thing..........or would I?


"The most powerful sexual organ in the body is our brain, open your mind and allow your fantasies free reign, mutual pleasure between consenting adults is a wonderful thing."
DanesWood