Monday, 18 June 2007

A Trip To McD's For Some Finger Licking Fun

This is the over due part 2 of "A BJ A Day Keeps The Doldrums At Bay"

I stopped at a large retail park, which was mostly empty by now and found a spot right in front of a security camera (if anyone was looking they'd be able to see quite a bit of anything I did inside the car), I called Master and told him what I'd been doing.

Something tells me he wasn't too pleased that I'd been pleasuring someone else, but he didn't actually say so, (I guess I'll soon find out). I confessed to Master that M hadn't been able to make me cum, too many people around really to relax and enjoy it.
Master instructed me to insert the vibrator and rub my clit, He especially liked the fact it was quite likely I could be seen on camera by security.

Master told me to rub my clit hard, but not cum without asking, every time I slowed he could tell by my breathing and told me to rub faster and harder again.
While I'm rubbing Master told me he'd been talking to The Controller and there'd been some discussion of our proposed meeting, although he says he's still not decided to go ahead 100%.
Just as I could feel myself building to that wonderful plateau just before orgasm the phone went dead, Masters battery on his mobile died.
How gutted was I?? Couldn't even call him on his land line as he was out and about.
So off I went to see my friend and spent all evening pouting over 2 men who couldn't make me cum on the same day.
Thank goodness for toys, so that's me self pleasuring again when I go to bed.
Memo to self: Buy Master a phone with a better battery in it!

"The most powerful sexual organ in the body is our brain, open your mind and allow your fantasies free reign, mutual pleasure between consenting adults is a wonderful thing."

The Devious Dastardly Device (And Other Restraints)

Well what a fabulous day Saturday was, my pet was in her element, a Dom to help teach me the delights of rope bondage and allow my pet to test some steel restraints he's made.

How my pet loved that she couldn't wriggle at all, and every time she was able to move more than slightly he added an extra element, but let me start from the beginning.

C and I met at an arranged location so we would arrive at pets house together, she's nervous of being alone with a man, and this was her first meeting with him, although they've spoken on the telephone several times. We discussed what we planned to do and I explained what limits I placed on him touching her, I had no concerns he would overstep these boundaries, his main purpose for joining us was purely research and development of his restraints. Once he'd shown me his bag of tricks we headed over to pets house.

Her initial shyness over we sat chatting around the kitchen table over coffee with pet, we needed to be sure she was happy to play with C there and have him restrain her, she assured us both she was, her shy smile couldn't disguise her excitement at the prospect of what lay ahead.

I sent pet upstairs to strip and wait for us on the bed, she practically ran up the steep stairs to her bedroom, it was quite funny how eager she was, very sweet too.

We followed her up a minute later, pet sat naked and waiting, I lay all my toys out on the desk, showing C the ones I know pet likes most, and those she doesn't. C left his holdall outside the room, ready for later use just bringing some bondage rope in with him.

I'm sure the fact that pet was naked and were both clothed added an element of vulnerability for her. A large part of Domination is the mind play with the submissive, especially with pet I find. Telling her I'm going to do something to her and describing it in detail seems to have a very similar effect to actually doing it, her imagination takes her into the zone. Throughout the whole scene I talk to her, suggesting things I could do or will do, perhaps pack both her pussy and ass with ice, or fit the nipple clamps to her labia. Both these things have pet squirming and begging me not to do them, yet her obvious excitement tells me the opposite.

First C had pet lay on her stomach, using ropes he tied her ankles and wrists, then bent her legs up to make the hog tie, showing me each stage and carefully explaining what to look for to ensure my pet was safe, good circulation is important, I don't want her bruised unnecessarily either.

How lovely to have her in a position I can move her around, yet she can't resist too much, a great start to the afternoon.

Next came the 30 inch spreader bar, I fitted leather, buckle fasten cuffs to pets ankles and C used rope through the D rings to fix them to the spreader bar. Of course this now meant pet couldn't close her legs, something she's been craving since our first session together. The beauty of restraining her legs this way is I have total access, yet it's comfortable enough to leave on for as long as i like, it also allowed me to move her into different positions, legs in the air laying on her back, or kneeling and laying forward.

I slid the blindfold over pets eyes, she loves that, it allows her to enter her own sub space, concentrate entirely on the physical sensations of what's happening to her. On went the Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps, a few tugs on the chain to demonstrate how nicely they grip for C, he'd never seen them before. Clover clamps are very intense and it's important not to leave them on for too long, always take special care of your submissive, because they've placed their trust in you and it's your duty not to betray that.

I picked up pets vibrator and turned it on, holding against her clit, rubbing it up and down her pussy, with my other hand i rolled the wartenberg wheel over the pussy lips, nipples and stomach.

Wasn't too long before pet had her first orgasm of the day, takes a lot of play to get her there, but once she cums there's no stopping her, she cums like a train squirting juices everywhere. C watched in amazement as she had orgasm after orgasm for about 30 minutes or more. So much pussy juice came out of her she soaked through the towel, quilt and through to the mattress, what a turn on.

Eventually I decided to call a halt, before her reservoir ran totally dry, there was no sign of her stopping by herself, we allowed her to rest a couple of minutes then C brought out his Dastardly Devious Device, or DDD for short.

The DDD is a solid central bar with rigid wrist cuffs at the front, and a T bar 2/3 of the way down for the submissive to lean over, positioning them in such a way their bottom half is exposed and the front stretched forward to the cuffs, bringing the head down to the floor or whatever surface the DDD is resting on. Ropes were used to attach pet to the DDD by the knees with the thigh spreader bar attached to the DDD, as this wasn't enough for pet we also attached the 30 inch leg spreader to her ankles again.
She couldn't help herself though, pet had to demonstrate she could wriggle more than C was willing to allow, to stop this we fitted the ball gag and attached a rope from the strap down pets back and down between the cheeks of her bottom and tied the rope to the rigid T bar.

This left with a dilemma, leaning back was uncomfortable and awkward, but leaning forward pulled the rope tight pressing it against her clit, again uncomfortable, yet still she had to demonstrate the amount of movement left to her by kicking her legs up below the knee, C took immediate action, using ropes to tie her ankles and the spreader bar to the bed, preventing all movement.
For a few minutes i flicked her pussy with my flogger, just enough to sting a little, the moment C gauged she'd had enough and was time to release her we went to work releasing pet as quickly as possible. This is also crucial, your submissive needs to know you care, that you don't just push on past that point where it becomes abuse and about your needs not theirs.

Once released pet gave me a huge hug and looked shyly at C, I kissed her and stroked her gently, telling her how proud I was and asking how she'd felt about it all, there were a few giggles when C asked her about wriggling so she'd be restrained even more severely.
Overall 5 hours of play, learning and fun, then it was back to C's house where we drank a bottle of Bombay Sapphire Gin and ate takeaway and relaxed talking about the session.

"The most powerful sexual organ in the body is our brain, open your mind and allow your fantasies free reign, mutual pleasure between consenting adults is a wonderful thing."


Thursday, 14 June 2007

A Flogging Good Time

I thought it was time I wrote about the initiation of J, someone I got talking to properly online but later found out I'd met in person though my job, coincedence huh?

J is older, a widower for several years, and a man who loved his wife very much, for him she was his one and only. Lucky for them finding each other, just sad they didn't get to grow old together.

Although J knows there'll never be another love for him, that doesn't mean he's deprived himself sexually, J has several lady friends of a similar age he lunches with, and on lol. Nothing wrong with them, or him, but for J it was growing stale, he felt other urges it was getting harder to deny inside him.

We got talking in a lifestyle chat room, J very curious and wanting to explore the submissive side he suspected was inside him.

I'm the type of person most find it easy to talk to, even about their deepest darkest secrets, but because of my laid back approach to BDSM , J found it difficult to accept I was for real, not just someone who sat in a chat room bragging about things I'd done and demanding all kneel before me as a sign of respect. That's not my way at all, I don't need to be called Mistress or Ma'am or have a capital letter put on my name to tell me my status in the lifestyle, I KNOW who I am.

The look on J's face when I arrived on his doorstep with my toy bag, a mixture of fear and excitement.
Needing to put J at ease I sat on the couch and accepted his offer of coffee, chatting to him about work and family stuff while he got himself together and calmed down a little.
J has had 2 major heart operations, not a good idea to get him TOO excited, the thought of calling the emergency services and explaining how J had collapsed while naked, cuffed and bent over a dining chair being flogged and finger fucked definitely didn't appeal.

We sat at opposite ends of the couch sipping coffee and examining the contents of my toy bag, I took each item out individually explaining to J how each can be used, either for pain or pleasure.
I have to say his eyes widened at a few things, the blindfold, the butt plug and the ball gag especially, but I knew I was on a winner when I took out my leather flogger, J got an instant erection. He sat stroking the leather thongs, looking at me and practically drooling with excitement as I explained how the flogger can be used to varying degrees, to sting a little, sensitising the skin, or hard enough to cause pain and bruise.

There was a moment I thought J was going to lose his nerve, time to take control of the situation I decided, and told J to strip, it was playtime.
J asked permission to pour himself a whisky, which I gave, and I sat back watching his discomfort and smiling softly to myself. I knew now for certain J took me seriously, this was now very real for him.

Again I sensed J was playing for time, the small whisky he poured himself was taking a very long time to drink, so I reminded him why I was there, and told him to swallow the remainder down quickly
Putting the glass down on the table J looked at me and began to undo his shirt buttons, asking me if I was serious about him having to remove all his clothing. "Of course," I confirmed. "I want everything off, including your socks."

There was a horrified gasp when I said the socks had to come off, what is it about men and their socks? It's like they feel less naked with them on, well boys I have news for you, wearing socks does not prevent me seeing your cock, so get them off!

While J was busy stripping I walked through to his kitchen and picked up a dining chair, it seemed the ideal height to use as a play prop. J could bend over it, lean on the back rest or sit on it, depending on my intentions.
Once J was naked I told him to turn the chair around so he could rest his hands on the back for support and lean forward a little, with legs spread wide he now made a wonderful target for a sensitising flogging, lovely stingy lashes all over his back, bottom and between his legs so the tips of the thongs flicked against his cock and balls.

I promised J I'd be gentle with him, partly by necessity because of his medical condition, but mainly because this was purely intended as an introduction, a taster to see if he really wanted to explore this side of himself further.
After a few minutes of this J's breathing was getting heavier, I could tell by his reaction he was relaxing and enjoying the sensations, so I decided to take it up a notch.

I reached for the lubricant and put a generous amount on my fingers, then slipped the tip of the middle finger on my left hand inside his anus and resumed the light flogging.
J flinched at the intrusion and squirmed a little at the discomfort, asking me what i'd put inside him. I'm not sure he could believe that just the tip of a finger could be so invasive, he just couldn't relax enough to allow more than one finger inside him, but with patience I did manage to insert the whole finger for a little while.
At this point it was obvious J was highly excited, his whole body was trembling, and I had concerns for his well being, so as soon as he requested we take a break I stopped and helped him to sit down and catch his breath.

I burst out laughing when J thanked me and said he'd just rest a few minutes before getting dressed, he thought his experience was over, he thought wrong. A session is not ended until I say it is, and in this instance I was not stopping until J had an orgasm. If this was to be his only foray into the chocolate side of life I wanted to make sure it was memorable.

Off came the 4 inch heels I was wearing, and out came the fur lined, leather, buckle up wrist cuffs I own. J was instructed to present his wrists and after each was fitted his arms were put behind his back and the D rings on the cuffs fastened together using the clip on bar.
Next on went the blindfold, J eagerly accepted it. I asked him to confirm he wished to continue, J assured me he did, so picking up my Japanese Clover nipple clamps I allowed the chain to jingle a little, a warning to J of what to expect next.

Putting the nipple clamps on I have to say i was quite sadistic, I pulled each nipple out firmly and just quickly fitted the clamps, not giving J time to slowly ajust to the intensity of their grip. If you've never tried clover clamps I can highly recommend them, especially those with a chain joining them. Gives a very intense sensation when you tug on it.

J let out a low moan, his head moving slowly from side to side. I tugged the chain hard, and I could resist whispering in his ear, "So do you still think I'm all talk hmmm? I'm not, am I J?"
His urgent "No" was all I needed to tug the chain again, and this time ask him to thank me for the pleasure I was providing.
That "Thank you Mistress", has to be one of the most satisfying I've received thus far.
J was instructed to sit with his legs wide open, exposing his cock and balls to my ministrations. With every flick of the flogger J's cock grew harder and harder, standing up so straight it was like a flag pole, delicious.

My second favourite toy after my flogger is the Warternburg wheel, something so simple, yet extremely effective in sensation play. I instructed J to hold the flogger handle in his mouth, effectively acting as a gag, but with a much faster safety release.

Very slowly I rolled the wheel across J's clamped nipples, down his stomach, then relocated to the base of his penis. Rolling it up the shaft of J's cock I could gauge from his reaction it was causing him a pleasure/pain sensation, one that is often very finely balanced. By the time the wheel reached the head of his cock J was oozing pre-cum freely, his excitement impossible for him to disguise.

There soon came a point where J could no longer hold the flogger in his mouth, so feeling generous I removed it and informed J that as he'd been such a good boy I was going to allow him to cum. I released his hands and instructed him to stroke his cock, then with the occassional tug on the nipple clamp chain I rolled the wheel across the head of J's cock, lingering over the eye each time I crossed.

By now J was so turned on he was stroking his cock faster and faster, desperate to cum, which he already knew he was not to do without begging for my permission.
To my surprise J now began begging for a cock to suck, something we'd discussed several times, and J had said he'd never do. Well, well, what a turn up for the books, J is more submissive than he realised, and also very eager to please me.

When I knew J was at bursting point I gave him permission to cum, pulled hard on the nipple clamps and waited for his cum to spurt.
A huge jet of creamy cum shot out of his cock, something else I knew J had never done was taste himself, which I'd assured him was something he would do with me. J was just as certain he would not.
Imagine his surprise when scooping up some of the hot spunk I pushed my fingers into his gaping mouth, making sure to spread it around inside. As his spasms slowed J began to react to tasting his own cum, pushing saliva out with his tongue to try and get rid of the taste. I just grinned from ear to ear and waited for J to come slowly down to earth, it took a while, but he eventually calmed down, his comment of "Well that was different", had me in gales of laughter, such an understatement for his obvious display of ectasy.

J has been asking me constantly for a second session, so I think even after J has had time to reflect he's eager for more, in every way, even begging me to take another man with me so he can suck a cock for my pleasure.

"The most powerful sexual organ in the body is our brain, open your mind and allow your fantasies free reign, mutual pleasure between consenting adults is a wonderful thing."