Tuesday, 26 July 2011

Saturday Night Alright

Last week I worked hard and was looking forward to my weekend. Saturday night I went to a BDSM event with a Domme friend of mine. The venue is 100 miles from me and I had to make a detour to pick up my friend, but it was worth it. The venue is amazing and I knew she'd love it there as much as I do.
I'd already planned to top a friend, and the night before I'd also joking told someone else that his ass was mine and we'd play. I'd only met him once before, briefly. Not taken any notice of what he looked like, but we had talked a little over the last year online. Meeting him in person I got some most unexpected prickles of excitement.
I flogged and spanked his bottom, just somehow got very little from it, but then I restrained him in a bondage chair and attached clover clamps to his nipples. Now I was in my element, I could read his reactions, look into his eyes and really begin to explore him.
After a few minutes with the clamps I took them off and began to use my fingers instead.
I stood really close, began with light squeezes and slowly ramped up the pressure. There were times he struggled, but every time the pain became intense he looked right into my eyes and we got past the pain together.
It's a long time since I felt any sort of connection like that.
I've no idea if we'll play gain, he says he'd love to and will travel up here to see me, but time will tell.
I'm still thinking how to word my thoughts on the latest Dom I'm talking to. So far lots of boxes ticked on both sides, but I'm not holding my breath after my previous experiences.

"The most powerful sexual organ in the body is our brain, open your mind and allow your fantasies free reign, mutual pleasure between consenting adults is a wonderful thing."

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

The part about the pain and eyes and getting through it together...chills.